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		<title>What is Love&#8230;.. Really?</title>
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<p>Today on the blog I am addressing the broad subject of love. This is such a huge topic but for this video I will only discuss the aspect of what love really is. </p>
<p>Many people believe that real love is about communication, connection and caring for each other but what about when the communication breaks down and the connection is faulty?  Does that mean that the couple is loving at sometimes and not loving at other times? </p>
<p>Using an easy to understand model, I explain how the struggle develops between two people in a relationship and although we can appreciate that both have valid points, I offer a third alternative that goes beyond the two view points; the definition of best. What is the best way for human beings to come to understand each other, thereby understanding more about what real love is. What results when two people strive to live in the definition of best? </p>
<p>As you watch this video, what thoughts come to mind? I welcome you to share them and any questions or other comments that you may have.</p>
<p>With You in Mind<br />
Norm Quantz</p>
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