Why is it so Hard to Change?
Why is it so hard for victims to change? In this video blog post I talk about how a personal agenda can hold a person in victimization. We often picture our lives according to how we define ourselves. When we define ourselves with something that has to do with someone else, such as married or with children, things can get tricky and...
Read MoreAll Humans have Equal Value
There is a difference between personal power and personal value. All humans have equal value; we all have the same value. People naturally hold different amounts of power in relationships but power and value are not the same thing. When one person’s actions state that their ideas and wishes are more valuable than other persons,...
Read MoreSeeking Police Assistance for Domestic Violence
Women often find it difficult to give a report to police when there is crisis risk situation such as domestic violence going on, and they have called the police to come diffuse the situation. The trouble is that women often believe that they are the cause of the violence and coupled with the fact that they have such a sense of trying to...
Read MoreA Healthy Mindset for a Counseling Therapist
There is a mindset that seems evident when a therapist is open to and willing to get personal help from another psychotherapist or mental health professional. This mindset is often revealed in the way the therapist works with clients, for instance when counseling therapists see themselves on a journey with the client towards...
Read MoreAn Illustration of Power Differential between Men and Women
In this video I tell a story about an elephant and a mouse to illustrate the power differential that exists between men and women. The application that you can take from this illustration assists in understanding the reactions and interactions that take place between males and females. For the most part, men are unaware of this...
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