NormQuantz.com » relationship expert http://www.normquantz.com Counsellor, Author, Relationship Expert, Video Blog About Therapy and Mental Health Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:36:48 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Don’t Shoot The Messenger http://www.normquantz.com/2012/01/dont-shoot-the-messenger/ http://www.normquantz.com/2012/01/dont-shoot-the-messenger/#comments Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:36:48 +0000 Norm http://www.normquantz.com/?p=1957

 

Here are two wrongs I want to correct.

First, you may be told by your abuser and his family and friends that if you report the abuse you will cause the breakup of the family. I want you to know, that is a most twisted concept. You are the messenger reporting the one that caused it. The results are to be laid solely on the abuser and those that coddle that type of behaviour.

Secondly, you may feel that you are bad because reporting abuse must mean you are vindictive and you only want to be good. You need to learn how to be angry at what is wrong. This is part of maturing. You will not be able to please everyone.

Abusers want you to be happy with them so they can keep getting away with abusing. Be angry at that. Those who remain silent allow evil to flourish.

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I had the privilege to be the first guest on Michael Levin’s new radio show called: LAST HOUSE ON THE BLOCK. This show will be a regular noon hour feature (EST), Monday – Friday on WVNJ-AM Radio 1160 in the New Jersey, New York, Manhattan and Connecticut areas. It is also available for listening globally through www.WVNJ.com and click on “Listen Live”.

Norm

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