Sexual Abusers Hide In Plain Sight
That’s Why “In-House” Investigations Go Nowhere Trying to expose a sexual abuser is a rocky road. Why? Because they have honed and crafted their deception so well that they can hide their habit right under the nose of those that would, if they knew, take action to protect the victims. Some Questions from Victims are: So How Do Sexual Abusers Hide and Get Away with It? and,...
Read MoreSteps To Move Your Relationship Forward
Particularly If You Have A NH-AWS Relationship This video considers the importance of Power and Control dynamics in your close relationships such as your marriage. Then I introduce you to a new Syndrome I have called the NH-AWS, the Nice Husband-Anxious Wife Syndrome and explain how that may be affecting the health of your relationship. And finally I outline some steps to move you forward...
Read MoreWhy Relationships Break Up?
Not What You First Might Think Breakups happen because of abuse and not mostly because of physical violence. It is because of what is happening at the core of the relationship. What stops the love from growing is about abuse. But that’s not easy to spot. So you’re wondering, who is the problem? You are determined to find out. This is your time. You are going to find out what is...
Read MoreCan Your Relationship Make It?
Understand It Through The Quality Of Its Power And Control Dynamics! Is your marriage stretched to the limit? Are you thinking separation or the big D is the only option left? Relationships are best understood through the quality of the Power and Control dynamics that are present in each one. Consider what Power is: it is the ability or strength or capability to do or be. This is...
Read MoreKeeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don’t Share – Reason #2
Another reason victims keep their abuse secret is they think it will dishonor their family or friend. I explain how that, in fact, is the lie. It is the mistreatment that is dishonoring, not the messenger. Seeking the help of others is the honorable thing to do. Telling what is true, ultimately benefits the relationship. It is only in living real that you will have the opportunity to...
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