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		<title>Abuse, Call it What You Want, The Results are Still the Same</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/abuse-call-it-what-you-want-the-results-are-still-the-same/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 15:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Power & Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Abuse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abuser and Victim are common terms. There are different ways of saying the same thing. I explain in this video vignette various words we use to describe this misuse of power and control in relationships. I then explain the primary dynamic that is present when these variations are used. Listen to find out what the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The A B C of Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 19:20:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A simple concept helps to redirect the focus within a struggling relationship. If ‘A’ is you and ‘B’ is someone else, then ‘C’ is the best of the best of what anyone can be. ‘C’ is the ideal character for anyone to live. It’s the way we were designed to be. In this video I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Just Days Before My First Book Goes To Print</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 04:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just days before my first book goes to print, I’ve had one last boo, making word and editorial changes. To do this, I’ve read every word meticulously and totally focused, trying to see if I said what I want in the clearest way possible. I found several dozen changes that needed to be made. And [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How Abusive Control can lead to Producing Alter Personalities</title>
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		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/how-abusive-control-can-lead-to-producing-alter-personalities/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 15:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Norm discusses one aspect of how abusive control disguised as nice, can contribute to multiple personality disorder and dissociative issues. ]]></description>
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		<title>Multiple Personality ~ aka ~ Dissociated Identity Disorder</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/multiple-personality-and-dissociation/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/multiple-personality-and-dissociation/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Dec 2009 06:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this video, Norm begins a five part series discussing dissociated Identity disorder formerly known as multiple personality disorder and some of the causes.]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s All About Power and Control ~ New Book</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/its-all-about-power-and-control-new-book/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/its-all-about-power-and-control-new-book/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 18:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Norm shares his excitement as his new book “It’s All About Power and Control”  goes to publication. ]]></description>
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		<title>Marriage Problems and the Concept of Power</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/marriage-problems-and-the-concept-of-power/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/marriage-problems-and-the-concept-of-power/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:07:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this video, Norm introduces a key concept contributing to the success of healing marriages, from his New book “It’s all about Power and Control”]]></description>
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		<title>Discussing Right and Wrong on the side of Wrong</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/discussing-right-and-wrong-on-the-side-of-wrong/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/discussing-right-and-wrong-on-the-side-of-wrong/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 19:06:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Power & Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse tactics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[equality in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage therapist]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Parents]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[power and control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship authority]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This video continues with the discussion of “its not right or wrong”, this time on the side of wrong, highlighting how psychological abusers love it when those around them choose to stay on the side of neutral. ]]></description>
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		<title>Controlling People ~ When one Friend Controls Another</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/controlling-people-when-one-friend-controls-another/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/controlling-people-when-one-friend-controls-another/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 14:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are your friendships based in equality or does one partner have more power and control then the other? Have a look at this video as Norm demonstrates the power differential between two women friends and how the weaker one can break free of the hooks that the manipulative friend has in her. ]]></description>
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		<title>All Humans have Equal Value</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/marriage/all-humans-have-equal-value/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/marriage/all-humans-have-equal-value/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 17:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered why some people always get their way? Have you ever felt like you come last, or that you are never heard, or that you have no impact? There could be someone in your life that believes they are more valuable then you are.  ]]></description>
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