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		<title>Seeking Police Assistance for Domestic Violence</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 17:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Women often find it difficult to give a report to police when there is crisis risk situation such as domestic violence going on, and they have called the police to come diffuse the situation.</p>
<p>The trouble is that women often believe that they are the cause of the violence and coupled with the fact that they have such a sense of trying to figure out how to protect their partner, that even when police have to be called to help, she is still protective of him.  Because of these two things, she often doesn’t present the truth about what is really going on.  She plays it down and neglects to include the history of violence or physical threats from him.</p>
<p>Men frequently will give a statement to police that the woman is the one causing the problem and because she appears to be weak in her story, they often believe the man when he claims that it isn’t him who is abusing her, but the other way around, sometimes even saying that they were trying to protect themselves from her. </p>
<p>In this video, I offer a couple of suggestions on how women can talk to the police with greater effect.<br />
Have a look at the video and I welcome questions, comments and feedback.  </p>
<p>With you in Mind,<br />
Norm Quantz</p>
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