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		<title>Controlling People ~ When one Friend Controls Another</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 14:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are your friendships based in equality or does one partner have more power and control then the other? Have a look at this video as Norm demonstrates the power differential between two women friends and how the weaker one can break free of the hooks that the manipulative friend has in her. ]]></description>
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<p>In this video, Norm uses the example of two women friends; one of them dominates the relationship, controlling and manipulating the other woman.</p>
<p>Using an old fashioned and eye from his workshop, Norm illustrates a controlling relationship and talks about how one woman controlled the other and why the less powerful woman in the relationship was attracted to her controlling friend.</p>
<p>How can a victim open their eyes and lose the hook that the controller has in them? Watch this video and leave your comments or feedback! Looking forward to hearing from you!</p>
<p>With You in Mind,<br />
Norm Quantz</p>
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