marriage therapist

Relationships ~ The Best You Could or Would Do?

Do you participate in your relationship the best you could, or the best you would? Over and over again I hear the statement “well I’m doing the best I can, I’ve done my best” But when I look at the facts in the relationship, it becomes obvious that these people are doing the best they would do, and not the best they could do....

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What do Women Really want in Relationship?

What do women mean when they say that they want a real relationship? Being a counseling therapist, relationship problems are something that I hear about daily. In this Video I talk about a few of the common issues that I come across in my counseling practice regarding marriage problems. Men often struggle with trying to figure out...

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Discussing Right and Wrong on the side of Wrong

In the last video I talked about the phrase “It’s not right or wrong” and I focused on the “its not right” half of the phrase. In this video I am discussing the “its not wrong” side of the expression. People often use this expression in an effort not to be judged or labelled as being wrong themselves. People want to come...

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Psychological Abuse ~ The First Appointment

In this video I talk about the difficulty a woman has when seeking therapeutic help from a mental health professional for issues of psychological abuse within her marriage or primary relationship. I am referring to when a person lives with the often constant undermining words, actions or attitudes of her partner, until she is...

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Decisions ~ Does the Wife have Equal Say?

Today I am talking about the need to change the way we think and how we view our relationships, particularly in those close marriage and partnership relationships. In the last video I spoke about a power differential that exists between men and women and how men still dominate our society as far as having more power and more final...

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