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Just Days Before My First Book Goes To Print

Just days before my first book goes to print, I’ve had one last boo, making word and editorial changes. To do this, I’ve read every word meticulously and totally focused, trying to see if I said what I want in the clearest way possible. I found several dozen changes that needed to be made. And this was after I thought all the other times had caught them all. There just never...

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What is Love….. Really?

Today on the blog I am addressing the broad subject of love. This is such a huge topic but for this video I will only discuss the aspect of what love really is. Many people believe that real love is about communication, connection and caring for each other but what about when the communication breaks down and the connection is faulty? ...

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Marriage Problems and the Concept of Power

On the subject of troubled marriages, I’ve written a book scheduled for publication December 2009, called “It’s All About Power and Control; Why marriages fall apart and what it takes to put them back together again.” I am completely convinced that people are hard wired for relationship. If this true, then why are we failing so...

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Relationships ~ The Best You Could or Would Do?

Do you participate in your relationship the best you could, or the best you would? Over and over again I hear the statement “well I’m doing the best I can, I’ve done my best” But when I look at the facts in the relationship, it becomes obvious that these people are doing the best they would do, and not the best they could do....

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Trauma ~ Women Respond Differently than Men

Aside from the fact that people experience trauma differently, generally there is also a difference in the trauma response in the ways that men respond to it, compared to the ways that women react to it. In this video I talk about that difference. Although there are some similarities between how women and men respond, there are some...

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