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		<title>Keeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don&#8217;t Share &#8211; Reason #2</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 17:30:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another reason victims keep their abuse secret is they think it will dishonor their family or friend. I explain how that, in fact, is the lie. It is the mistreatment that is dishonoring, not the messenger. Seeking the help of others is the honorable thing to do. Telling what is true, ultimately benefits the relationship. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Keeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don’t Share</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 17:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[One reason victims don’t share and thereby keep their abuse a secret, is that they know they won’t be believed. They have grown up within relationships where their voice is not respected, so they think “If I tell it won’t be believed.” In this video I explain the importance of telling others. With You in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Multi-Tasking, Congruity, and Double Mindedness</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/multi-tasking-congruity-and-double-mindedness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 17:29:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Power & Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abuse tactics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[congruity]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Controllers are adept at mixing the good with the bad. Double-Mindedness is presented as multi-tasking and congruity. In this video I touch on the way they really are and expose the way to distinguish their differences. Recognizing those differences can help you resist being caught up in the deception of a controller’s mindless nonsense in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s All About Power and Control ~ New Book</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/mental-health/its-all-about-power-and-control-new-book/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 18:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Power & Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Therapist to Therapist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Book about power and control]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[equality in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manipulative control]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Norm shares his excitement as his new book “It’s All About Power and Control”  goes to publication. ]]></description>
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		<title>Controlling People ~ When one Friend Controls Another</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/power-control/controlling-people-when-one-friend-controls-another/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 14:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Power & Control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are your friendships based in equality or does one partner have more power and control then the other? Have a look at this video as Norm demonstrates the power differential between two women friends and how the weaker one can break free of the hooks that the manipulative friend has in her. ]]></description>
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		<title>Psychological Abuse ~ Restricting Activity</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/marriage/psychological-abuse-restricting-activity/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/marriage/psychological-abuse-restricting-activity/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 14:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[abusive tactics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[counseling therapist]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[There is a tactic used by psychological abusive people that involves restricting the activities or actions of somebody else.  Restricting activities actually attempts to control the boundaries that the spouse operates within.]]></description>
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		<title>When a Psychologically Abusive Person Plays Dumb</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/marriage/when-a-psychologically-abusive-person-plays-dumb/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/marriage/when-a-psychologically-abusive-person-plays-dumb/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This tactic falls under the category of withholding since it is about withholding intelligence from a situation. When a psychologically abusive person withholds intelligence, they actually try to act like they really don’t know anything about the subject at hand. ]]></description>
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