Why Relationships Break Up?
Not What You First Might Think Breakups happen because of abuse and not mostly because of physical violence. It is because of what is happening at the core of the relationship. What stops the love from growing is about abuse. But that’s not easy to spot. So you’re wondering, who is the problem? You are determined to find out. This is your time. You are going to find out what is...
Read MoreCan Your Relationship Make It?
Understand It Through The Quality Of Its Power And Control Dynamics! Is your marriage stretched to the limit? Are you thinking separation or the big D is the only option left? Relationships are best understood through the quality of the Power and Control dynamics that are present in each one. Consider what Power is: it is the ability or strength or capability to do or be. This is...
Read MoreCompliments to You
Many people who put great effort into improving their life and relationships are not recognized for their honest efforts. Reading books, taking seminars, seeking counselling, etc. give evidence of the great amount of energy expended to get healthy. I share my thoughts in this video for the ones who are truly trying to improve. It’s...
Read MoreShould You Avoid Hurting Someone’s Feelings?
You maybe don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. But is that best? I talk in this video blog about how little you have control over whether someone’s feelings are hurt or not. It has a lot to do with the different ways of thinking between you and that other person. What is important is for you to pursue healthiness and as you do...
Read MoreHow To Change Your Character, Analogy
Your lawn grass needs three components to grow – heat, nutrients, and water. Your character needs similar components to grow – warmth, quality input, and life giving beliefs. I show how these, given enough time and priority in your life, will help provide the conditions necessary for healthy personal and relational change. With...
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