control freak

How Abusive Control can lead to Producing Alter Personalities

It is important to understand how control works and how it contributes to a person’s struggle inside to be one or to be whole. The alters serve the purpose of representing the personality who sought freedom or escape from the situation that was out of their control. The alter personalities also keep the person from living as one whole...

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Controlling People ~ When one Friend Controls Another

In this video, Norm uses the example of two women friends; one of them dominates the relationship, controlling and manipulating the other woman. Using an old fashioned and eye from his workshop, Norm illustrates a controlling relationship and talks about how one woman controlled the other and why the less powerful woman in the...

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When Psychological Abusers talk Nonsense

In this video I talk about another one of the withholding strategies used by controllers, psychological abusers and manipulators; speaking nonsense and mixing up information for the purpose of withholding of wisdom and confusing the issue. Psychological abusers, manipulators and controllers can dominate a relationship with this kind...

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