character

Don’t Send Your Teens The Wrong Message

  Responding too quickly or not at all to what teens do and say gives them the wrong message. Let them ponder their thoughts out loud so they can hear themselves think. This will allow them the opportunity to form an opinion about their own thoughts just like they do with all the other thoughts around them. I explain how this creates connections with them and contributes to developing them...

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What Can Focus Do?

It is important in life to learn how to focus. Whether it’s a 6 month old learning to focus on a toy or a teen learning to focus on studying for a final exam, the benefits of this character quality will last a lifetime. Focusing only on one thing at the exclusion of other important matters such as relationships is not beneficial...

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The A B C of Life

A simple concept helps to redirect the focus within a struggling relationship. If ‘A’ is you and ‘B’ is someone else, then ‘C’ is the best of the best of what anyone can be. ‘C’ is the ideal character for anyone to live. It’s the way we were designed to be. In this video I describe the benefits of how each person’s...

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How To Change Your Character, Analogy

Your lawn grass needs three components to grow – heat, nutrients, and water. Your character needs similar components to grow – warmth, quality input, and life giving beliefs. I show how these, given enough time and priority in your life, will help provide the conditions necessary for healthy personal and relational change. With...

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