abusive relationship

Keeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don’t Share – Reason #2

  Another reason victims keep their abuse secret is they think it will dishonor their family or friend. I explain how that, in fact, is the lie. It is the mistreatment that is dishonoring, not the messenger. Seeking the help of others is the honorable thing to do. Telling what is true, ultimately benefits the relationship. It is only in living real that you will have the opportunity to...

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Keeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don’t Share

  One reason victims don’t share and thereby keep their abuse a secret, is that they know they won’t be believed. They have grown up within relationships where their voice is not respected, so they think “If I tell it won’t be believed.” In this video I explain the importance of telling others. With You in...

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Abuse, Call it What You Want, The Results are Still the Same

  Abuser and Victim are common terms. There are different ways of saying the same thing. I explain in this video vignette various words we use to describe this misuse of power and control in relationships. I then explain the primary dynamic that is present when these variations are used. Listen to find out what the common result is no matter what you call...

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Abusers Love Information

Those who misuse control over others are often extreme information gatherers. They then use that to position themselves with more control. At first it seems an innocent gathering of information but later reveals the twisted issues connected to their domination of another. In this video clip, I provide a point of view that may help you...

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It Is Here – All About Power and Control

I am very excited! My very first book is now published and ready to be shared. In just a few days it will be available on Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble and others. If you would like to be notified as soon as the link is ready, please sign up on the left hand side for my thought of the week and personal...

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