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		<title>Abusers Love Information</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2010/topic/power-control/abusers-love-information/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jun 2010 16:13:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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Those who misuse control over others are often extreme information gatherers. They then use that to position themselves with more control. At first it seems an innocent gathering of information but later reveals the twisted issues connected to their domination of another. In this video clip, I provide a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It Is Here &#8211; All About Power and Control</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2010/topic/marriage/it-is-here-all-about-power-and-control/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:49:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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I am very excited! My very first book is now published and ready to be shared.
In just a few days it will be available on Amazon.com, Barnes &#038; Noble and others.
If you would like to be notified as soon as the link is ready, please sign up on the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Relationship between Psychological Abuse, Stress &amp; Illness</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2010/topic/mental-health/the-relationship-between-psychological-abuse-stress-illness/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2010/topic/mental-health/the-relationship-between-psychological-abuse-stress-illness/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Jan 2010 17:44:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abusive relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[gabor mate]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this video, Norm talks about the effects of psychological abuse on the physical body and how stress can affect overall health and contribute to illness. ]]></description>
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		<title>Refusing to be a Victim yet still Victimized</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/mental-health/refusing-to-be-a-victim-yet-still-victimized/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/mental-health/refusing-to-be-a-victim-yet-still-victimized/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 21:37:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abusive relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[chronic illness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[immune system]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[survivor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[victim mentality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[victim mindset]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In this video, Norm talks about victim mindset; the effects of continually living as a victim and how this can have long term negative health effects. ]]></description>
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		<title>Controlling People ~ When one Friend Controls Another</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/power-control/controlling-people-when-one-friend-controls-another/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 14:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are your friendships based in equality or does one partner have more power and control then the other? Have a look at this video as Norm demonstrates the power differential between two women friends and how the weaker one can break free of the hooks that the manipulative friend has in her. ]]></description>
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		<title>All Humans have Equal Value</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/marriage/all-humans-have-equal-value/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/marriage/all-humans-have-equal-value/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 17:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abusive relationship]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[equality in relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage counseling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mental Health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[power and control]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[power differential]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[therapist]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[therapy]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered why some people always get their way? Have you ever felt like you come last, or that you are never heard, or that you have no impact? There could be someone in your life that believes they are more valuable then you are.  ]]></description>
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		<title>Seeking a Lawyer for Advice or Divorce</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/seeking-a-lawyer-for-advice-or-divorce/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/seeking-a-lawyer-for-advice-or-divorce/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 19:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Video Topics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abusive relationship]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[In this video, Norm talks about laying the ground work for that first meeting with a new lawyer and some of the points to consider before the meeting.  Do you know what your major concerns are?]]></description>
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		<title>Psychological Abuse ~ The First Appointment</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/mental-health/psychological-abuse-the-first-appointment/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/mental-health/psychological-abuse-the-first-appointment/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 14:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So many women feel that they have to prove to the therapist that they have a legitimate concern; however the fact that there is frustration with trying to fix the condition of the relationship and make it work with a partner is enough reason to seek assistance from a qualified mental health professional without having to explain beyond that. ]]></description>
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		<title>When Psychological Abusers talk Nonsense</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/psychological-abuse/when-psychological-abusers-talk-nonsense/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/psychological-abuse/when-psychological-abusers-talk-nonsense/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 19:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Psychological Abuse]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[abusive relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[control freak]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[marriage counseling]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship authority]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship therapist]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[The wise use of knowledge is intentionally withheld to confuse the other person so that they are unable to argue against that kind of nonsense. It causes the victim to feel as though they are a little bit out of it; ]]></description>
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		<title>When a Psychologically Abusive Person Plays Dumb</title>
		<link>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/marriage/when-a-psychologically-abusive-person-plays-dumb/</link>
		<comments>http://www.normquantz.com/2009/topic/marriage/when-a-psychologically-abusive-person-plays-dumb/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:10:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Norm</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse tactics]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This tactic falls under the category of withholding since it is about withholding intelligence from a situation. When a psychologically abusive person withholds intelligence, they actually try to act like they really don’t know anything about the subject at hand. ]]></description>
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