Sexual Abusers Hide In Plain Sight
That’s Why “In-House” Investigations Go Nowhere Trying to expose a sexual abuser is a rocky road. Why? Because they have honed and crafted their deception so well that they can hide their habit right under the nose of those that would, if they knew, take action to protect the victims. Some Questions from Victims are: So How Do Sexual Abusers Hide and Get Away with It? and,...
Read MoreKeeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don’t Share – Reason #2
Another reason victims keep their abuse secret is they think it will dishonor their family or friend. I explain how that, in fact, is the lie. It is the mistreatment that is dishonoring, not the messenger. Seeking the help of others is the honorable thing to do. Telling what is true, ultimately benefits the relationship. It is only in living real that you will have the opportunity to...
Read MoreKeeping Abuse A Secret, Why Victims Don’t Share
One reason victims don’t share and thereby keep their abuse a secret, is that they know they won’t be believed. They have grown up within relationships where their voice is not respected, so they think “If I tell it won’t be believed.” In this video I explain the importance of telling others. With You in...
Read MoreAbuse, Call it What You Want, The Results are Still the Same
Abuser and Victim are common terms. There are different ways of saying the same thing. I explain in this video vignette various words we use to describe this misuse of power and control in relationships. I then explain the primary dynamic that is present when these variations are used. Listen to find out what the common result is no matter what you call...
Read MoreAbusers Love Information
Those who misuse control over others are often extreme information gatherers. They then use that to position themselves with more control. At first it seems an innocent gathering of information but later reveals the twisted issues connected to their domination of another. In this video clip, I provide a point of view that may help you...
Read MoreCrazy Making from Conflicted Thinking
Have you felt that “he’s driving me crazy?” I address that issue showing how you may be trying to weave very thin threads of truth that the controller gives you and you’re attempting to make a tapestry out of such meagre points. It doesn’t work. Victims try to believe their controller, but conflicted thinking isn’t true...
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