In the last video I talked about the phrase “It’s not right or wrong” and I focused on the “its not right” half of the phrase. In this video I am discussing the “its not wrong” side of the expression.
People often use this expression in an effort not to be judged or labelled as being wrong themselves. People want to come across as loving and accepting, and therefore are more comfortable not identifying wrong.
This choice makes a perfect ground for psychological abusers who manipulate situations so that they can’t be wrong. If their victim is willing to remain neutral, it makes it very easy for a psychological abuser to do the wrong thing and not get called on it.
It is important to identify some things as wrong. Take a look at this video and see what you think. I would love to have your feedback!
With You in Mind,
Norm Quantz
